Respond to civil harassment restraining order

  • "Respond" means to let the judge and the other side know whether you agree or disagree with the request for restraining order, and why.
  • If you want to respond in writing, you can complete a form and turn it in to the court. Responding in writing is optional and there is no penalty if you don't. 
If you were arrested recently, are on probation, or have a criminal case open, you should talk to your criminal lawyer before you put anything in writing. If you don't have a lawyer, you can go to a self-help center to learn more about your options.
 

Before you start

⚠️ Anything you put in your papers could be used against you in a criminal case. Talk to a lawyer if you have any concerns.

  • If you don't have a lawyer, you may be able to get free help from your local court's self-help center

  • Hire a lawyer to help you with all or a part of your case. It’s possible to go through this process without a lawyer. But, having a restraining order against you may have a lot of consequences, and you may want to hire a lawyer. 

How to respond to a request for a restraining order

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  • Fill out the Response form (CH-120)

  • Make copies of your forms

    • After you’ve filled out and signed the Response, form CH-120, make 2 copies.
    • You'll need the 2 copies, plus the original, when you file with the court.
  • File your forms

    File your forms:

    • In person at the courthouse: Make 2 more copies of your forms.
      • Take your original and 2 copies to the courthouse listed on the papers you were served.
      • At the courthouse, you’ll give all copies to the court clerk.
      • The clerk will keep the original, stamp your copies, and return the copies to you. One copy is for your records. The other copy is for the other side.
    • Online: You can file your papers online (called e-filing). Go to your court website to find out how to e-file.

    💵  You may have to pay a filing fee to file your response (form CH-120).

    You will not have to pay a fee if:

    • The other person checked item 13a on their CH-100. 

    • You can’t afford the fees. You can ask the clerk for a fee waiver

      • You qualify for a fee waiver if you receive public benefits, your income is less than a set amount, or you can't afford the fee and meet your basic needs.

    You will have to pay a fee of $435-$450 to file your Response if you do not qualify for a fee waiver for either of these reasons. 

What's next?

Once you’ve completed and filed your forms, you'll need to have a copy mailed to the other side. This is called service and you will need to find another adult to do this for you. 

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